How To Win Your Wife Back Before It’s Too Late ?

If your wife has walked out of your life, bringing her back and winning over her heart again could prove to be a challenging task itself. This time, you would have to make her believe that you have changed as a person and that you would try to build a relationship that is happier, stronger, and more loving this time.

It is very rare for a wife to leave her husband over small quarrels or baby fights. Her leaving you indicates that she has had major problems in this relationship which pushed her so far that she eventually had to walk out.

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If you think that not giving her enough attention, or not respecting her enough or maybe at all or taking her for granted or cheating on her are not major set-backs, then you are entirely wrong! Because trust me, these small loving gestures from your side gives her a reason to stay. And if that’s missing in a marriage, what other reason is left for her to not get away from you?

How To Win Your Wife Back Before It’s Too Late?

So now, if you are planning to have her back in your life and you realize that you can’t even imagine spending a day without her let alone your whole life, the first step to take would be to understand what was it that caused her to leave.

Because it’s only when you know why she left, you can process on the procedure of bringing her back and making her feel wanted again.

So, the first thing goes first. You need to know what she went through all this time just thinking about leaving you before she moved.


Turning Into a Man She Wanted You to Be

The cruck of the story is that to win her back and make her fall in love with you once again, you have to become the man that she wants to be won by. You need to come across as a man of dreams, telling her by your actions that you have changed as a person and are no more the person that she decided to move away.

This does not imply taking coaching on changing as a person or something, instead, all you have to do is become more considerate and caring towards her making her feel special and wanted again. She should be able to see a clear change in the way you behave, think, and make decisions.

No women demand perfection in her man, all she wants is a man who tries. Trying to genuinely bring changes in yourself and proving her that you want to fix things with you is most of the time more than enough.

So if you are dying to hear that “yes” coming from her on you asking her to come back, you need to let her know that you have developed all those qualities that she wanted and that you have learned from your mistakes.

Once she forgives you from the bottom of her heart you will notice her eventually letting her guards down around you. She will start respecting you and get attracted to you when she believes that you have become the man you are claiming to be.


General Mistakes You Can Avoid

If you are sure that you want to win your wife’s heart back, then you should plan and follow it properly with all your heart so that you don’t end up making some of the following mistakes.


1. Don’t Make Unnecessary Promises

We have seen and heard many men do this before, what with going up to your partner and telling her that you are ready to do whatever she would say, whether It’s buying her a new car or doing the dishes at night, it would simply give her the idea that you both are not on the same page and even yet you don’t understand what she truly wants, consideration, respect and care.

It’s very usual for men to claim that they don’t have the slightest idea of why their wife left them or what went wrong. Whereas in reality, the wife is likely to have sent many signals throughout indicating what displeases her or what’s setting everything wrong. It’s your inability to decipher what her signals mean that she has finally decided to leave you. Trust me on this, the woman never wants to have to teach her husband how to be attractive in a relationship, she wants you to know it by yourself instead of her having to teach you like a mother.

Therefore, if you go up to her and tell her that you promise to change, just that she has to highlight those changes would be as meaningless as anything. To win her back, you need to gain her respect and love back, and to be able to do that, you need to make her believe that you have already learned from your previous mistakes. And if you are not sure of those mistakes or what improvements you need to bring in yourself, trust me you are lost.


2. Getting A New-Look

Don’t fall for the trap of changing your look to attract your wife towards you. If anything, it’s going to give her the impression that you might be interested in someone else and are trying to grab her attention. You might believe in the theory of making improvements to your outer appearance to make her swoon and fall all over again, therefore, trying a new haircut or hitting the gym could be on the top of your list.

The thing is that women’s attraction for her man is deeper than his outer appearance, therefore you would see men in their middle age with a pot-belly yet happily married. That’s because a woman’s love runs deeper than an un-toned body or an out of style haircut.

So put simply forward, if you can make her feel respectful and attractive towards you through your behavior, attitude, or the way you think and react to different things in your life you can have her back in your life otherwise no. It’s as simply put like that.


3. Letting Her On A Pedestal

Many men out there believe that if they let their wives know how important they are in their life they would just take pity and come back. Saying things like “I can’t live without you!” or There’s no one who can take your place in my heart!” would make them emotional and that it would be enough to bring them back.

Although it may warm their heart and work for you once, but keep in mind that this kind of tactic can’t be made a routine. If you don’t prove to be true to your words, i.e. if your actions, attitude, behavior, thinking, and the vibe around you do not make your wife feel respected and attracted to you, likely, she won’t stay for long.


4. Win Your Wife Back From Another Man

If your wife is already seeing someone, you need to make sure that in your wife’s eyes, you make him fade with your presence.

As stated by many research, 65% of relationships that come into existence after breaking up from one does not long for more than 6 months.

Therefore, your wife may not break up from the other guy immediately, however, your continuous tries to make her remember all those good things that you two accomplished together or to make her feel painful and positive emotions with you to come back to you.


5. Win Your Wife Back After a Separation

If the matters have gone as far as separation, you have to work on your issues and work on them as well as on improving yourself so that you are more attractive to her.

Once you are done with that, plan up a meeting with her and at the meeting, apologies to her for your mistakes, and let her know through your actions and behavior that you have changed.

You can take things slowly, ask her what would it take her to give the relationship another chance. If she is hesitant about moving with you just as yet, ask her what can he do that she starts seeing him at least once a weak? This would give your wife the impression of how hard you are trying and how much it matters for you.


6. Win Your Wife’s Heart back After an Affair

Out of all the reasons that your wife has left you, this is the most painful and difficult reason to process with. Whether it was you who was having an affair or her, finding solace out of her relationship.

If it was you, you have to make her believe that the other woman was simply a mistake and you still love her and only feel emotionally connected to her. You may ask her what would it take her to forgive you or put back any negative thoughts about you. You may explain it to her that many relationships go through bumps and rocky paths, but it’s their commitment as well as the love and unbreakable connection that they two shares that make them stick together till the end of the time.

While talking to her about this, make sure you have a very positive and caring aroma around you, and that your behavior and conversation style is attractive enough for her. If by chance you tend to make her unhappy during your conversation, it’s very unlikely that you are getting another chance from her. Try to be emotional and tell her how stupid you were being while choosing someone else over her.

Although if it was she who moved out of the line and started an affair, you need to be first sure of your feelings before you approach her. Make sure that you don’t have these betrayal feelings and if you do, think about whether it would become easier for you if you have sex with another woman so that you and your partner are both on the same page and even. Maybe if you don’t choose that, you might feel betrayed for the rest of your life and you may become insecure about her desire for you or her commitment to you.


7. Winning Your Wife Back Before it’s Too Late

It is usual for couples to patch up even years after they have broken-up, therefore, it can’t be said to be too late ever. However, not showing up and not confronting her for your mistakes could make her give up on any hope of patching things up with you and she may move on in her life with someone else.

Therefore, it should be as early as possible.

Love is a feeling that can never die. Yes, it can be suppressed by some overpowering feelings for the moment in a background. So to make your wife once again connect with her love feelings for you, you have to trigger the feelings of attraction and love for you.


Are You Sure You Have Changed From Where She Left You?

Before you approach her, this is a very important question that you need to answer. Your answer would likely be a “Yes” and that is the right approach to take. To have a positive mindset for success.

You need to believe that you and your wife patching up is the best thing for both of you.

Remember to not say things that you won’t be able to fulfill in the future. For instance, making big muscles, changing your hairstyles, and stuff like that. It would take you nowhere. You have to make her see that you have learned from your mistakes and that it won’t happen again.

On taking rapid action on your development to display the transformation would surely make her feel that you now have got what it takes to be her dream husband.

The last thing I want to say is you need to act fast, if you need help you may consider seeking professional help or signup for a good program to get your marriage back on track, the only program that I recommend to my readers is the Marriage Fitness Program by Mort Fertel, he’s not a marriage counselor, he’s a world authority on the psychology of relationships and has an international reputation. He’s success rate is 90% which is pretty high compared to others so called marriage counselors. This guy knows what he does and has been in the business for a long time, so be sure he will help you save your marriage and get things back to normal like it used to be when you meet your partner.

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  1. Dash says

    Good article thank you

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